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Aggressive No More!
Joyce called me when she was
at her wit's end with her cat friend Scamper's aggressive behavior
toward anyone who dared to enter their home. The last straw came
when Scamper attacked an appliance repairman. Scamper leapt out,
gave a long, threatening hiss and then charged toward the man as he
worked under the sink. Disciplining Scamper for his aggressive
behavior (squirting him, reprimands and swats on Scamper's rear
end) only seemed to escalate his behavior the next time someone
entered the apartment.
After communicating with Scamper, I
discovered that he considered himself "king" of Joyce's small
apartment and that by attacking repairmen, Joyce's friends and even
her parents, Scamper was asserting his dominance as the alpha male
in her home. Rather than try to discipline Scamper into
submission, I worked with Scamper to acknowledge his status as the
alpha male who does not need to prove his dominance over others.
Today Scamper has discovered new ways to feel like a "king" and has
not leapt out and attacked anyone in Joyce's home since!
Joyce writes:
"Scamper is a very well behaved, but
dignified kitty now. My mom and dad came over to visit this
weekend and had not seen Scamper in a long time. It has always
been a running joke about his "attack" cat tendencies, but this
time, he was just a calm kitty to them.
"Scamper has always
been very loyal to me and it gives me great pleasure to be able to
have a calm sanctuary for the both of us. It was so great to have
you to turn to for answers, and to provide understanding for what
was going on in his kitty soul. You provided practical solutions
and coaching, and much appreciated encouragement during the rough
spots. I am grateful for all of your invaluable advice."
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